Every time I hear the above question, I can actually feel my brain short circuit.
Thoughts rush in, waving madly, yelling
"Pick me! Pick me!" I envy the people who can answer this question clearly, directly and in detail. To those people I want to say
That sounds fantastic! What are you waiting for???Then I have to step back and check myself.
The running theme of all my dreams involves influencing people to move in positive directions.
That sounds fantastic. What am I waiting for???We all face the same dilemma, whether our dreams are clearly defined or not:Let go of what we know to pursue a dream or ideal life for ourselves
= free-fall from a suspension bridge and hope for a safe landing on better ground ...
possible, but so are a number of other less happy endings.
"The secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes." - Earl of Beaconsfield
A
clearly defined goal that fits our
values,
personal style and strengths can help us automatically make thousands of tiny decisions minute-by-minute, day-by day that bring our reality closer to our dreams. Some call this the law of attraction. I call it a
healthy, fully functioning brain.
After a while, that feared free-fall into the unknown becomes a
purposeful and well prepared parachute to a visible paradise.
Ask yourself these 7 questions:- What are your Core Values?
- What is your true preferred Personal Style?
- What are your strengths you want to use on a daily basis?
- What skills do you want to acquire to compliment the strengths you prefer to use?
- What are all the things you would want to do if you weren't doing what you're doing?
- Working backwards from where you want to be to where you are, what action steps, information and resources are needed to do what you really want to do?
- What are you willing and able to act on right NOW? If not now, WHEN?
Companies make
Mission and
Vision statements. Create your own Vision and Mission statements honouring your true
Core Values,
Style and
Strengths. Be the CEO of your life. Create
clarity and
direction. Work
ON your life, rather than
IN it.
Most of all, enjoy the ride and make true friends and lasting contributions along the way!
"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine." - Ralph Waldo Emerson