If you weren't doing what you're doing, what would you be doing?

Every time I hear the above question, I can actually feel my brain short circuit.

Thoughts rush in, waving madly, yelling "Pick me! Pick me!"

I envy the people who can answer this question clearly, directly and in detail. To those people I want to say That sounds fantastic! What are you waiting for???

Then I have to step back and check myself.

The running theme of all my dreams involves influencing people to move in positive directions. That sounds fantastic. What am I waiting for???

We all face the same dilemma, whether our dreams are clearly defined or not:

Let go of what we know to pursue a dream or ideal life for ourselves

= free-fall from a suspension bridge and hope for a safe landing on better ground ...

possible, but so are a number of other less happy endings.

"The secret of success in life is for a man to be ready for his opportunity when it comes." - Earl of Beaconsfield

A clearly defined goal that fits our values, personal style and strengths can help us automatically make thousands of tiny decisions minute-by-minute, day-by day that bring our reality closer to our dreams. Some call this the law of attraction. I call it a healthy, fully functioning brain.

After a while, that feared free-fall into the unknown becomes a purposeful and well prepared parachute to a visible paradise.

Ask yourself these 7 questions:

1. What are your Core Values?
2. What is your true preferred Personal Style?
3. What are your strengths you want to use on a daily basis?
4. What skills do you want to acquire to compliment the strengths you prefer to use?
5. What are all the things you would want to do if you weren't doing what you're doing?
6. Working backwards from where you want to be to where you are, what action steps, information and resources are needed to do what you really want to do?
7. What are you willing and able to act on right NOW? If not now, WHEN?

Companies make Mission and Vision statements. Create your own Vision and Mission statements honouring your true Core Values, Style and Strengths. Be the CEO of your life. Create clarity and direction. Work ON your life, rather than IN it.

Most of all, enjoy the ride and make true friends and lasting contributions along the way!

"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

When you finally know what you really want, you want it to start RIGHT NOW!

They say:

• Patience is a virtue ...
• Haste makes waste ...
• Good things come to those who wait ... blah, blah, blah!
  

Have you ever finally figured out exactly what it is you wanted?

It may have been as trivial as a pair of shoes, skis or golf clubs. It may have been more life altering, such as the perfect car, house with the ideal kitchen ... and walk-in closet, ideal job opportunity or your soul mate ... Whatever it was for you, picture yourself in the exact moment when you KNEW it was right ...

Are you there?

Good.

THAT is the moment where YOUR passions, knowledge, abilities and strengths collided. Did anyone need to motivate you to go after what you truly wanted?

You have just discovered the true secret to motivating others.

Now RARELY are your staff going to be THAT passionate about the work you ask them to do. But if you can get them to reveal their Core Values, Strengths and Interests to you ... and to themselves ... you are on the road to finding out how to retain employee loyalty both to your company AND to your bottom line.

What is good for your employees is also good for YOU! If you are that passionate and motivated about your business every morning when you wake up, you will set the world on fire!

Okay, maybe not the world, but you will light up your clients and draw to you people who truly need or want what you have to offer!

Don't believe in the power of attraction?

Your thoughts manifest themselves in your attitude toward everything you do. Put it this way: Who would you rather have build your deck - someone who looks as though he'd rather be in his 5 o'clock world or someone who LOVES thinking about, designing and building beautiful, functional, stable and affordable decks?

My suggestion is not to find ways to hype the company and rally your staff, but to discover ways to link TRUE passions to the work.

For instance, a sanitation engineer may not be enthusiastic about garbage, but may love being paid to work out, the thrill of jumping on and off a moving truck, being outdoors rather than in a stuffy office, throwing things and early mornings. Encourage and respect those key elements and you can continue to motivate your sanitation crew through the stickiest festering summer routes! You will also attract potential hires who value the same things as your workers spread positive word-of-mouth about their workplace!

As people become more connected to their position and feel the support from their employer, they will step into a leadership mentality about their role within the organization. It is VITAL to encourage this step. Imagine a company full of employees who "OWN" their positions and their credibility as part of the team!


Use these two assessments for Self-Development and/or for teambuilding!!




Online Personal Style Indicator (PSI) helps you understand your own strengths and preferences and recognize the strengths of others, communicate more effectively with those who are inherently different and work more efficiently to build on each others' strengths for common goals!

The Online Values Preference Indicator (VPI) helps you identify your true top (and bottom) Core Values, learn the related fears and needs that filter all your perceptions and drive all your decisions and discover how to better honour your Core Values and the values of those around you!

How Did I Get Here?

If that title made you sing a Talking Heads song, you're as old as me.

The concepts suggested in the song's words "Letting the days go by ..." and "Same as it ever was ..." are tragically all too real for most of today's society. The character in the song wakes up in a world he's created and become trapped by while sleepwalking through life.

In careers, we see this happen when people follow convenience, jobs offered by well-meaning relatives or friends and a need for a paycheque. We see this in people setting goals that are not in line with their passions, strengths and purpose.

Where Do I Go From Here?

If you've been at that crossroad described above, you know you really have three choices:

1. Go back to your familiar sleepwalking;
2. Go to sleep somewhere else thinking the new environment will make a difference; or
3. Get out of bed, take a good look in the mirror and start working on a purposeful life!!!

#3 is exhausting, but well worth the journey and does not alienate those who have grown to love and depend on you. As entrepreneurs #3 is vital to your ultimate success or all you've grown will dissolve "... into the blue again after the money's gone ..."

A good start to this journey is "the mirror" - a clearer picture of who you are, your inherent strengths, how you show up day to day and your true core values. You can sift through feedback from those who know you, engage the help of a life coach or psychologist, or take a few self-directed assessments. I recommend the triple-threat:

1. Start with the assessments
2. Discuss your self-discovery with those closest to you and engage their feedback
3. Round it out with targeted life coaching

Two self-scoring self-interpreted assessments I highly recommend are:

The Online Personal Style Indicator (PSI) and the Online Values Preference Indicator (VPI)

Both hold the mirror up at different angles, and also teach you how to look at others in a whole new way! There are many life coaches available, each with a different background or focus. There are many ways to find a coach in your area. Talk to other professionals you respect and see if any of them have a coach they would recommend to you. There are coaches who work over the phone as well.

Life is a journey, not a destination. The day we stop growing and learning how to be the best possible version of ourselves is the day we stop inspiring others ... and the day we begin to stop mattering to anyone but ourselves. What a sad day that is.

Want to know how entrepreneurial you really are?

If you are running your own business, responsible for a seperate venture within a corporation or even thinking of starting your own business, I strongly recommend that you take the Entrepreneurial Style and Success Indicator! This has helped many business owners to re-evaluate their operations and roles to go forward more on purpose

You will learn your greatest strengths and areas you need to find strong partners to assist your business.

There are really two assessments in one within the ESSI:

• The first helps you determine your preferred entrepreneurial style and related strengths and weaknesses.
• The second, proprietary to CRG, documents the top 28 success factors as determined by research conducted on 4000 successful entrepreneurs.

Online Entrepreneurial Style and Success Indicator (ESSI)

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